Monthly Archives: October 2012

Lying is so wrong. You’ve done everything to stop your thirteen-year-old son, Sam, from lying—given the trust lecture and tried every consequence in the book—but he still lies. Why? The answer has to do with focus. Giving all your attention … Continue reading →

Is your child’s drama driving you crazy especially when you are the calm and collected type? (That’s an Intensity of Reaction personality trait.) Or maybe you have a child who from the get go has never wanted to try anything … Continue reading →

Finally, our doctor confirmed that my child has ADHD, both types: the hyperactive/impulsive type and the inattentive type. I get an email at least once a week from his school with the same message every time: He’s missing homework (even … Continue reading →

In my counseling experience, six deep-seated motivations invariably emerged as I helped over 2500 precious children put words to their deepest heartfelt feelings. It’s been so exciting to witness. Here they are. Motivation to please parents and be good. Wanting … Continue reading →

Your daughter was caught cheating yesterday. That’s the neon flashing first sentence in an email sent by your daughter’s middle school teacher only two weeks into the year. After the first tsunami shock wave passes, your minds flooded with what … Continue reading →

I asked a thirteen-year-old friend of mine to give his perspective on having ADHD and how it’s affected his life so far. The following is his response. Do you know what it’s like to be called “lazy” and “irresponsible” by … Continue reading →